Promote Pushing The Foot Forward When Pitching With The Power Push

The Power-Push softball pitcher’s training aid device was developed to promote a powerful forward push over the front of the fastpitch pitcher’s push foot straight down the power line and away from the pitching rubber.

The Power-Push provides a channel for the push foot to promote driving the push foot stright down the power line,not up in the air.This promotes opening up at the “apex”of the pitch, not on the rubber.

This will give instant feedback to the pitcher if she turns her push foot to the side too soon in the push and performs either a heel drag or having two feet in the air at the same time The Power-Push will be thrown to the side as it catches the pitcher’s heel if she turns her push foot too soon in the pitch.

This will convince her that she is turning her foot too soon , and will provide the instant feedback necessary to create the muscle memory required to develop great powerful habits as a pitcher.

A great training aid to help fastpitch softball pitchers that twist their ankles.

Power Push


A great training aid to help fastpitch softball pitchers that turn their ankles.

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Does She Believe In Herself?


Does She Believe In Herself? Written By John Michael Kelly

After coaching girls’ softball for over a dozen years I have found the female athlete to be amazingly determined, wildly passionate, fiercely loyal yet emotionally fragile.

This emotional fragility is heightened by parents and coaches who don’t understand the uniqueness of the female athlete.

A young woman’s self-esteem, self-image and self-beliefs need to be nurtured and respected, particularly as athletes in a game as difficult emotionally as fastpitch softball can be.

For an adolescent female athlete her self-belief on the field is everything. I marvel at how many players I see, work with and coach have issues with their self-confidence. I have come to realize that it’s just not easy being a young woman in a world obsessed with physical perfection and often expectations for flawless behavior.

In truth your athlete or team will only go as for in their skill development and on the field performance as they believe they will. These often limiting self-beliefs can greatly impact her motivation and desire, for if she really doesn’t believe she is good enough why is all that extra work really worth it?

On the field I witness an epidemic of “self-doubt;” athletes afraid of making mistakes for fear of letting down parents, coaches, teammates and self. I see so many young ladies searching for their identity on the diamond and having to cope with the inevitable emotional roller coaster ride that fastpitch is.

Then I see parents, usually Dad’s, and coaches berating an athlete or her entire team after a mistake or poor game and I cringe knowing the damaging they are doing to their athletes’ self-esteem and self-confidence.

In the world of sports psychology it’s called “self-efficacy;” one’s belief in their ability to perform a task successfully. From psychologist Albert Bandura:

People with a strong sense of self-efficacy:

–View challenging problems as tasks to be mastered

–Develop deeper interest in the activities in which they participate

–Form a stronger sense of commitment to their interests and activities

–Recover quickly from setbacks and disappointments

People with a weak sense of self-efficacy:
–Avoid challenging tasks

–Believe that difficult tasks and situations are beyond their capabilities

–Focus on personal failings and negative outcomes

–Quickly lose confidence in personal abilities

So how can you help your athlete or team to build up this self-efficacy, the self-belief that “she can” be successful?

1. Support her and nurture her self-esteem, confidence and sense of self; particularly after a tough day on the field (or classroom).

2. Suspend your judgments, criticisms and need to be right around her. Step into her shoes and her world for a few minutes. I assure you that the amount of pressure she feels today in ALL areas of her life to excel is far greater than you experienced at her age.

3. Respect and honor her for her effort, her talent, her loyalty, her love for her teammates and the game.

4. Listen. As adults (yes I am often guilty of this with my daughter) we feel the need to talk too much when often all our daughters want us to do is put our arm around her and listen!

5. Continue to challenge her limiting self-beliefs and always encourage her to get better on the field (as in every area of her life). Start seeing her as having unlimited potential for greatness and watch her start to believe the same.

In truth the greatest gift we can give our daughters and those young ladies that we coach is the gift of confidence that propels their self-esteem, self-worth and their own belief that they can do anything they set their minds to in a sometimes difficult world!

Thanks for reading. –John Michael Kelly

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The Zip Board Is A Really Cool Lineup Board

The Zip Board Is A Really Cool Lineup Board By Gary Leland

Portable, retractable, rigid workspace

You can teach, illustrate, brainstorm, and coach anytime and anywhere

Fully extended the board measures 13.5 by 9.25 inches

Retracts into portable 2.5 by 12in tube

Includes dry erase marker with eraser, belt clip, and hooks for a break away strap

The most versatile coaching equipment, necessary for the coach who’s on the go!




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Winning Small

Daily Discipline: Winning Small

Winning Small Written By Charity Butler

“All the time I see people with purpose who are inconsistent in their progress.” –John Maxwell, Leadership Expert

This statement hit me like a sucker-punch to the gut! In recent years, I’ve been full of passion and purpose but, at times, have lacked the desired progress.

My passions and purpose have been driven by big dreams, huge goals. I became laser-focused and poured all my energy into creating and achieving insanely huge feats. I worked tirelessly, trying to maintain a sprinter’s pace under marathon-like circumstances.

Let’s just say life balance was a joke, and serious progress seemed ever out-of-reach. Projects that I believed in deeply blew-up in my face. I remained committed and worked tirelessly.

Are not the skills and disciplines we learn in athletics supposed to teach us to succeed in life? If we work harder, we are supposed to succeed, right?

Have you heard (or maybe even used) any of these motivational statements?

When you’re not working, someone else is.
Do today what others will not so tomorrow you can do what others cannot.
The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary.

As an athlete, my little heart was pumped full of mottos of success such as these. Off the field, I set out to conquer life in the same way that I did opponents in competition. I was working really hard, so what was I missing?

Robert Collier had the answer, “success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.”

I realized that as an athlete, my passion and purpose were inspired by big goals and dreams, but they were backed by daily disciplines. I was the first to practice, the last to leave. I spent untold hours taking extra ground balls, reps in the batting cage, grinding it out in the weight room and pushing through hardcore conditioning programs. My nutrition was on point, and I stayed hydrated. My routines were structured and clear.

As an adult, I knew how to set big goals. Dreaming big is as easy as breathing, but at times my daily disciplines have waned. Oh, I worked hard alright. I gave everything I had in one segment of life, while all of the other areas suffered. I was like a player who only adopted one of the training aspects above. I was one-dimensional, at best.

As former athletes, it seems our discipline should propel us to post-player greatness. We are tough. We know what it is to push ourselves and to experience delayed gratification. Why, then, do many of us struggle? Why do our careers, our finances, our health, personal growth, family relationships, friendships and/or our spiritual lives seem like disasters at times?

The majority of us do not provide daily attention to all of these important areas. Some of us may be overwhelmed and burned out. Others may be bored. Some may be truly thriving. No matter the current state or season of life, our daily routines are crucial.

As a new school year begins, this is the time of year to focus on goals. What will we do, have and be in the next twelve months? What will our programs accomplish? For the 2013-14 season, I challenge you to dream big and win small.

Win small, you ask? Yes! Win small by establishing regular routines that will help you make progress in every category of life: career, finance, spiritual, physical, intellectual, family, social, etc.

Establish a small habit in each of the above areas. Your habits should fit you. Be clear about what you want and work within manageable, daily routines so you make regular progress in ways that are important to you. These habits must be realistic, otherwise consistency is impossible.

Follow through with the small habits every day, week or month (whichever is applicable). Peak Performance Coach Brian Cain advises, “It’s better to do a little a lot than a lot a little.” The implications of this tiny idea are staggering.

Some of my small, new habits include, contacting friends on my self-imposed lunch hour via text, email or phone. This little routine is allowing me to recharge in the middle of the day while staying involved in the lives of people that matter. The short window of time also keeps me from gabbing for too long!

I am also cleaning my house for several minutes each morning, instead of pushing all those responsibilities to the weekend. The load is much lighter! I get more done in less time and have less to do by staying consistent.

I have also set aside time each day to read, even if it is only 10 minutes. My workouts are now about 20 minutes of intense training, so I truly have no excuse for missing them. Pushing hard is essential, as time is limited.

My professional habits are now clear, as well. Each responsibility has an assigned day and time. Weekly time is also allotted for unexpected issues or catching up on tasks needing more attention.

By giving myself parameters and committing to consistent action, progress is becoming reality! I am also much more efficient. According to Leonard Bernstein, one of the most famous composers in American history, “To achieve great things, two things are needed: a plan, and not quite enough time.”
Daily deadlines have added a little healthy pressure and produced surprising efficiency. With a little consistency, I have been amazed what 10 minutes per day can afford.

Please understand I am by no means promoting my new habits as the best ideas for you. Only you can determine what you want and where you need to make progress.

We are all very different, but to achieve life balance, we must all choose daily discipline. “Whether you are a success or failure in life has little to do with your circumstances; it has much more to do with your choices.” –Nido Qubein

Dream big, be passionate and have purpose, but choose to make progress by winning small. The results are unexpectedly huge!

How To Coach The Scholar Athlete

How to Coach the Scholar Athlete Written By Keri Casas

How to Coach the Scholar Athlete Written By Keri Casas

A scholar athlete is one that is very bright and excels in the classroom; seemingly a better student than athlete.  Many coaches struggle with the scholar athlete simply because they do not understand them.  They do not understand how they think and how they relay instruction to action.  For example, if you tell a scholar athlete to “watch the ball hit the bat,” they will think a handful of things instead of that simple phrase.  They will think, “Where are my hands,” “do I need to swing now,” “how are my feet supposed to look,” “where does my bat make contact”.  They are very mechanical thinkers.  Now, most athletes do not analyze such a simple phrase because it is just that; simple.  When a scholar athlete is told a command, they analyze, dissect, and picture everything that is supposed to happen to “watch the ball hit the bat,” instead of just hitting the ball.

How do you fix this as her coach?  To make things simpler for your scholar athlete, you need to try to think how she thinks.  The more you are in touch with your athlete and understand her way of thinking, the better your communication will be.  When you start to think about the swing and break it down mechanically, you will understand how your scholar athlete comprehends your commands.

How do you understand your scholar athlete’s mentality? Ask questions!  Ask your athlete to break down her swing; watch what she does and have her explain what she is doing.  By doing so, your language with your athlete can connect based on how she interprets parts of her swing.  Now once you and your athlete are on the same page and you have strong lines of communication, teach her the same way you would any other athlete.  Allow your scholar athlete to break down her swing mechanically while she is completing drills and dry swings, but as soon as she faces live pitching or a machine, she needs to be in “go mode”.  Let your athlete know that they are allowed to be mechanically and analytical during drills, but have her swing with a clear mind against a pitcher or machine.

We call this, “hitting like a 5 year old”.  This is not meant to be demeaning, but to literally have your athlete think like a 5 year old would.  5 year olds know the difference between right and wrong, and they know if you tell them to do something, they will directly do it.  If you tell them, “Look at that ball, when it comes to you, swing and hit it,” they will do it.  Because you gave them a simple direction, and nothing else, they are able to accomplish the task because it is the only thing on their mind.  Treating your scholar athletes in a similar fashion will prove to be extremely affective in their performance.  Stick to direct commands, small adjustments, and key words and your athlete will overcome mechanical and analytical thinking in the batter’s box.

Key Coaching Tips for the Scholar Athlete
1. Do not over teach!  If you give your athlete too many points to focus on, their brain will be on overload!
2. Praise small achievements!  Scholar athletes look to be perfect and when they don’t achieve perfection, let them know their small accomplishments are still great!
3. Get on her level!  Get to know your scholar athlete and the way she thinks.  The more you understand each other, the better your communication and teaching will work!

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Every Coach Needs A Dig Out Tool In Their Bag

Every Coach Needs A Dig Out Tool In Their Bag By Gary Leland

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Interview With Michele Smith

Michele Smith

Michele Smith Interviewed By Erin Goettlicher

Erin: Let’s get back to the beginning. When did you get into softball? How did you get into it?

Michele: I was about six or seven years old, my mom was coaching my older sister. Of course I begged them to let me play and, that’s how I first got started. I didn’t start to pitch though until I was fifteen, a sophomore in high school. I started pitching really late.

Erin: What other positions that you play other than pitching?

Michele: I played first base, and I played outfield. I actually was a left-handed shortstop for a while, but I knew my career wasn’t going to probably go real far being a left-handed shortstop so I started pitching.

Erin: Now, you mentioned your mom. Was there anybody in particular that really helped to inspire you on softball?

Michele: I just love the bat, and ball sport since I was a little kid. It didn’t matter if it was playing in the neighborhood with the other kids, or playing in organized games, Just anything that had to do with baseball, or softball. I was loving it.

Erin: If you are to go back and  you had to pick another position other being than a pitcher, what would you be the best at?

Michele: Well, if I wasn’t left-handed, I would probably love to have played one of the middle infield positions. So if I was right-handed, middle infield. Being left-handed, I probably would have set first base. Although I did love the outfield as well.  I’m one of those people, I’m happy if I’m just on the field.

Erin: Absolutely. Well, in your time, you played against a lot of great players. Who would you say is the toughest hitter you’ve ever faced?

Michele: I’ve faced a lot of great hitters because my career was so long. I don’t know if that’s a good thing, or a bad thing. Yvonne Gutierrez, who is a great hitter for UCLA, played in women’s major fastpitch was a very good hitter. Lisa Fernandez, Dot Richardson, Kim Morrell. Everyone who’s ever played on the Olympic team. You could probably name everyone of those athletes.

As a lefty, I always had a different look at batters than what right-handed pitchers had. Another one, Jen Brundage, very good hitter. There are a lot of them. You always had to try to figure out a way to give them out. They beat you sometimes, and then sometimes you beat them.

Erin: Well, I think one of the most well known names right now would be someone like Crystl Bustos.

Michele: Being a lefty, I would just throw her my curve ball low and inside, she hated that pitch. She would always say, “Smitty, stop throwing me that darn curve.” It’s a different game too depending on if we’re playing on forty feet or forty-three feet. When I started playing with her, we were still at forty feet. She was a tough hitter at forty feet. At forty-three feet, her game just goes to a new level because she has so much power that extra 3 feet. It’s tough to beat her.

Erin: So would you say, you or Crystal has the upper hand?

Michele: I think because I’m left-handed, I had the upper hand but only because I’m left-handed. I think against anyone else, and again, I’d mostly threw at her when we were at forty feet so it was a different game. I mean most pitchers have the upper hand at forty feet. But Crystal Bustos, when she’s on, if you have to throw the ball at her forty-three feet, more times and not, she’s going to beat you. So you just have to hope she gets herself out.

Erin: Well, now you mentioned the change in the pitching distance, throughout the years that you’ve played, what do you think is one of the craziest rule changes.

Michele: Yeah, internationally, the twenty second clock to speed up the game although it helped a lot. It made a difference in Beijing. For athletes, for those of us that played that elite game at forty feet, it was so difficult to pitch, to hit at that level that when they went back to forty-three feet, it opened the pool up. There were many more athletes that can play at the elite level at forty-three feet than they can at forty feet.

So that’s really why the US was just so over-powering in Athens besides the fact that we are great. The rest of the world wasn’t used to playing softball at forty-three feet. I think that one of the things about our sport is that we’re kind of like always moving, like an amoeba, kind of always moving around and always changing things. Baseball is so traditionally. You never see it changes. .

Erin: Absolutely. You mentioned the international scene. You’ve been to a lot of great places throughout the world. If you had to pick one of your favorite places whether be a city or a stadium to play, what would that be?

Michele: The Olympic arenas is just always something special. Any Olympic games, when you walk into that Olympic stadium, it doesn’t matter what country it’s in, when you represent your country, it’s a special thing. Playing in Sydney was always a lot of fun because you knew that every Australian fan was just going to give you the hardest time ever, so that’s always a lot of fun.

I loved playing in Japan. I played professionally there for sixteen years and the Japanese fans are wonderful. They’re great people, and appreciate really good play. It’s always fun to play in Europe although the Europeans don’t understand the sport as much. But I would have to say my favorite two places would be to play in Australia or, Japan.

Erin: Very good. Now, do you have any superstitions or traditions that you follow?

Michele: Yeah.

Erin: Before you take the field?

Michele: Yeah. I’m more traditional. I’m real big on having a routine. So I do always jump over the foul lines but, instead of that being a superstition, it was my way of saying, “Okay, it’s time to go to work.” It was my cue, physical cue to say, “Okay, it’s time for me to play ball.” So that was always my thing. It was like I was jumping into my arena almost like it was a three dimensional. Did I have favorite things I like to wear? Absolutely. These sliders were more comfortable than my other sliders so I wore those.

Did I wear them because I’m a superstitious? No, they’re just were the most comfortable ones I wore. So for me, it was more about routine.

Erin: In your equipment bag, on game day, what’s always in your equipment bag?

Michele: Always two gloves. Probably, about ten pairs of batting gloves. Three or four bats. Probably, some gels in case my arm gets tight, to keep it loose. Probably, some sort of food because I love to eat.

Erin: What iare your during the game snacks that you like?

Michele: I think bananas are always great. Honey is also really good pitchers because it’s a very natural.

Erin: Okay. You’ve played with many different teammates over the time. If we could go back and ask those players what they remember the most about you, what would you want them to say and how would you want them to describe you as a teammate?

Michele: I was probably tough, intense, but willing to help anyone if they needed extra BP, I throw them BP. If they needed extra practice, I work with them. So I tried to really make my teammates better. I don’t know if they always got that when I was playing but I was real big like that. That’s one of the things that the Japanese knew about me really well.

One of my biggest goals was to help my teammates become the best athletes that they could be.

Erin: Very good. Now, you mentioned that you keep some gels in case your arm gets sore. You’ve been playing for a lot of years. What is the toughest part about keeping yourself in great physical condition to play at such an elite level?

Michele: Well, the game isn’t just the four or six months you’re on the field. It’s a year round. If you want to be a great athlete, you have to train year round and that’s physical fitness. A lot of athletes think that they can work between the lines and that’s going to make them a good ball player. It doesn’t cut it anymore.

If you want to be an elite athlete, if you want a scholarship, if you want to win a state championship, a college championship, a gold medal, you have to learn to work really hard in the off season so that means running, cycling. It means cardiovascular fitness. It means building lean body mass as well as also having a level of fitness where your endurance just can take you further, and allow you to compete longer than the other people that are on the field with you.

Erin: Right. Now, when you finish your career, you’ve been playing for quite a while and I’m sure you’re going to continue to play as long as you can. When we look back on Michele Smith’s legacy, usually on the road, what are some of the things you’re most proud of that you want us to remember your legacy as?

Michele: That I never stop learning. I love to teach the game when I’m broadcasting for ESPN. I love to teach the game as if I’m speaking to one student athlete out there that is trying to become a better ball player. So for me, it’s about teaching the game, sharing my passion of the sport with potentially new fans of the game that are watching for the first time but really about learning and teaching and just feeling like every day I step on the field, I’m going to be a better athlete.

Erin: Great. Well, if you are going to leave us with a few words of advice for those young players out there that are chasing their dreams today, what would those be?

Michele: Few words of advice that would to persevere, to never give up. If you have a passion, if you have something that you love, whether or not it’s softball or Math or religion or whatever it is, just to never give up. That means in Japanese, to always fight hard.

Erin: Well, there you have it folks. Michele, thank you very much for joining us today.

Michele: Thank you.

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Doctor Overcomes Aches, Pains And Illness To Get Back On Field

Doctor overcomes aches, pains and illness to get back on field By Bill Plummer

“Doctor overcomes aches, pains and illness to get back on field” Written By Bill Plummer

People who play softball are grateful they can play the sport even in their senior years. One of them is Dr. Leon Speroff of Portland, Oregon.

Dr. Speroff is go grateful that he could play softball as a senior that he wrote a book about his experience entitled, “Slow-Pitch Therapy: Playing Senior Softball Through Aches, Pains and Illness.” In the book Speroff chronicles how fellow senior players provided essential support through “aches, pains and illness.” Speroff said the sport helped him through cancer treatment, a double knee replacement and shoulder surgery.

One of the biggest benefits of senior softball, said Speroff, is not batting or fielding or running.”There are more man-to-man hugs during and after a senior softball game than at any other time in most men’s lives. Senior softball is a vehicle for emotion, providing excuses and circumstances for manly interactions that are hard to find anywhere else. The older one becomes, the more precious are these moments,and when struggling with an illness, the support of fellow senior softball players is precious.”

Speroff went through extensive chemotherapy treatment for Lymphoma and here is his idea of the perfect psychological treatment.”Five for five in my first games back after a difficult month. What a difference it made after eight units of transfusions to have a good red blood cell level…no less discomfort; no shortness of breath; and the strength to swing the bat with coordination and strength! There is no better therapy for the chemotherapy blues.!”

Considering what Dr. Speroff endured it’s amazing how he survived let alone had the well and determination to again play softball. Dr. Speroff is professor emeritus of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the Oregon Health and Science University.

Speroff also drew praise and from one of his teammates. “Leon Speroff has been a friend since I started playing senior softball three years ago. As a fellow player, I only had brief glimpses of all he went through as he fought one malady after another in his quest to stay on the field. The book filled in the details and should be an inspiration for others facing medical obstacles in their lives. Staying active and having a goal are important factors in getting healthy and staying that way.”

There isn’t any doubt that Dr. Speroff had the will and through his love of senior softball found a way to continue playing. Hats off to the good doctor.

* * *
If you happened to watch the opening show of “The Biggest Loser” on September 11th, there was a familiar face among the 16 contestants. The group included former ASA All-American and three-time Olympian Lori Harrigan-Mack.

Harrigan, now 44, was a member of three USA Olympic teams (1996, 2000 and 2004) and is the only pitcher in the history of Olympic softball to hurl a no-hitter, beating Canada in the 2000 Olympics. She also is a member of four Halls of Fame including the ASA National Hall of Fame in OKC.

Now the director of security for a Las Vegas hotel, Harrigan-Mack weighed 301 pounds and now weighs 292 pounds. All those who know Lori wish her nothing but the best in her desire, and maybe even win the show’s top prize. All the best to you Lori.

That’s The View From Here.

Do It Anyway

Do It Anyway

Do It Anyway Written By Charity Butler

The loud crash of glass shattering on the tile floor somehow resonated deeply. My heart was heavy, and a clumsy mistake generated an unexpected epiphany.

Trust, like glass, is fragile. While removing glass shards from the floor, I felt the sting of shattered trust. Unfair treatment from those close to us cracks confidence and cuts deeply. Mother Teresa’s says it best:

“People are unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you win false and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
The good you do will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spent years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you help them.
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.”

When people experience unwarranted heartache, we say silly things like, “Don’t’ worry. Time heals all wounds,” and “Remember, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.”

Growing through adversity is definitely valuable. Facing challenges personally and professionally will thicken the skin and strengthen the backbone.

Difficulties cultivate depth. Problems change perspective. Obstacles create opportunities.

This article, however, is not about digging deep, toughening up, pushing through or getting gritty. As coaches, hopefully these concepts are a lifestyle we demonstrate daily and attempt to teach our players.

Today, I do not challenge you to “bow up” or “come out swinging”. I dare you to tackle unfairness in an illogical and unnatural fashion. I challenge you to forgive and it let go.

Life is not fair and sometimes it has a way of sucker-punching in the gut (or kicking in the teeth, according to Mother Teresa). Instead of staying angry or getting even, I challenge us all to get moving.

Surrounded by shattered glass, I tangibly saw the confusion and chaos brokenness brings. As I carefully, meticulously and intentionally began picking up the pieces, I processed.

The same is true when picking up the pieces after unreasonable and ill-treatment from others. Move forward carefully, not emotionally. Pain inevitably elicits emotion, but someone’s irrational actions and words are probably the initial cause of the predicament. Be willing to address problems and speak truth, but exercise caution.

Once emotions are in check, get meticulous. Sweep, vacuum, and wipe each tile by hand. Remove every glass fragment that could cause grief in the future. Could anything have been done or said differently? What can be learned or improved upon? What motives are driving the drama? Where is the potential for character development through the experience?

After analyzing, intentionally move on. When the glass of life shatters, carefully pick up the pieces, and be willing to meticulously process. Then be purposeful about the next step.

What if I had deeply gashed my finger on a piece of broken glass? Embracing the cliché that time heals all wounds, I refuse to carefully, meticulously and intentionally clean and dress the cut. Infection sets in, and without proper attention the infection grows worse, not better, over time.

Likewise, the infection of un-forgiveness will grow and spread. It will not heal on its own, no matter how much time elapses. Covering or pushing infection below the surface does not promote healing but sickness and even death.

What fights infection? Antibiotics… intentional treatment is the only viable option.

Festering bitterness is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies. Un-forgiveness binds us, while the glass which caused the injury could care less. Be willing to walk in the freedom of deliberate forgiveness.
To live healthy, balanced lives we must forgive. When reminded of the hurt, intentionally keep forgiving. Be resilient. With grace and strength, move forward.

Don’t feel like forgiving? Me neither. Mother Teresa tells us both to “do it anyway.”

“Greatness is best measured by how well an individual responds to the happenings in life that appear to be totally unfair, unreasonable and undeserved.” –Marvin J. Ashton

Greatness is ahead!


Hit The Ball, Not The Tee With The Tee Topper

The Tee Topper Will Help Preserve Your Batting Tee By Gary Leland

The Tee Topper is an attachment that inserts into the tee, so you wont have to keep replacing your tee when it splits or crumbles.

Helps you hit the ball, not the tee.

Strong, yet flexible.

Turns your import tee into a long lasting tee.

Use with most existing tees.

Won’t hurt your bat.

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How to Give the “After Game Talk”

How to Give the “After Game Talk” Written By Keri Casas

How to Give the “After Game Talk” Written By Keri Casas

After years and years of witnessing, being a part of, and giving the “After Game Talk,” it is evident that it plays a HUGE role in team communication, confidence, and attitude. Many coaches fail to really understand the importance of this talk as they simply want to get their point across, (good or bad), repeat their point, and tend to do so over a long period of time.

Now some coaches may give positive feedback after a well-played or won game, but many tend to save their disappointments and frustrations with their team for these talks. This is absolutely the worst place a coach could express those feelings. Female athletes do not respond well to constant, negative criticism. It is understandable that coaches are frustrated after losses, but guess what; your female athletes are frustrated too. They understand when they do poorly and when they don’t have a great game. After a game, the last thing they need to hear, especially from a male coach, is how poorly their game was executed.

Female athletes tend to hold on to things, whether good or bad, and constantly think about them; “Why did I look at strike 3? I can’t believe I missed that ball. I had a bad game.” Things like this constantly go through a female athletes head; we self-analyze and criticize more than any other person could. Already feeling defeated after a game, the “After Game Talk” can be crucial to your female athletes’ mental game.

If a coach tends to talk about all the mistakes, both individual and team, he could make their athletes feel very insecure. No female athlete wants to be put down, or made an example of in a negative fashion. The truth is, they already know if they made a crucial mistake, and their teammates know as well; putting the athlete “on blast” can really hurt an athlete’s confidence and security.

After all that, do any of you coaches feel badly about your “After Game Talks?” Did you notice how I droned on about the negative aspects of the “After Game Talk?” It does not feel good to be constantly criticized and now you can imagine how your athletes may feel.
So how does a coach give a proper “After Game Talk”? Although this may seem ridiculous to many adults, it is extremely important to female athletes; compliments. Compliment the things that they did well and the plays they did right. This does not mean that every talk has to avoid the negative aspects of the game played. A coach can let the female athletes know what went wrong, but focus on the next game and stay positive. Dwelling on the game that just ended will only help the girls carry that negativity into the next game.

Here is a good example of a quick “After the Game” talk:

“Well, ladies, we didn’t play our best in that game. I saw a few mental errors, but they are things that we can fix for our next game. Let’s be aggressive, strong, and put that game behind us. Taylor, great job with that sacrifice bunt; Sarah, nice throw into home; Emily, great pitching today, you fought really hard. Let’s take the good things out of that game and bring it into the next game. Let’s have lots of energy and work hard every play”

Having a talk like this allows for the girls to understand that they need to perform better in the next game, but it also highlights positivity in a negative outcome. It is important to find a compliment for every athlete, as every athlete plays a significant role on your team.

Another good activity in your “After Game Talk” is to have the athletes do the talking. Sometimes it is necessary for the coaches to step back and let the athletes share their feelings about the previous game; this way you can get an understanding of their opinions and thoughts on how they played and what they can improve.

To maintain team unity, it is a good idea to end the talk by having all the athletes say one good thing that their teammates did during the last game. For example, Jordan tells Annie, “Annie, you pitched really well in that game.” Annie tells Julia, “Julia, you had a great hit to center.” Etc. This helps the team stay positive and helps your female athletes to support each other rather than break each other down after a loss.

Key Coaching Tips for the “After Game Talk”

1. Keep it short and simple. Female athletes will lose your attention after awhile so it is best to make you point quickly while they are listening and attentive.

2. Stay positive! The more negative you are during a talk, the less they will listen to you. Remember, female athletes do not like to be talked down to.

3. Be careful with your words. Whatever you say will stick with the female athlete and carry on into the next game. If you want better performance out of your team, do not dwell on a loss and have a strong outlook for your next game.

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