Freedom, Courage, and the Mind of a Champion

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We have all seen “mentally tough” athletes on television perform in huge situations in front of millions of viewers with complete freedom. If you look for it at any little league game, you will see some nine-year-olds carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders. Why are both scenarios so common? It is not reality that inhibits performance; it is perception. Do you have the courage and motivation required to develop your talent as much as possible, and then express that talent on the diamond in “clutch” situations?

Courage is the strength of will to do what is difficult. It takes courage to redefine success as the “peace of mind that comes from knowing you did your best” (John Wooden). When an athlete truly accepts that her best effort is always good enough, regardless of what happens, she can have freedom from worry. Most people keep a safety net to protect them from feeling like a failure. They do not give their best effort. Not only is this easier, but their fear of the unknown also causes them to save some effort so that if things do not work out, they will be able to take solace in the idea that they could have tried harder. With courage, the future is still unknown and the unknown is still scary, but this fear has no impact on behavior. Adversity becomes a good thing and mistakes can easily be seen as critical components for growth and happiness.

Where does courage come from? Part of it is surely innate, but more of it, in my opinion, is learned. While fear still exists in the courageous athlete, there is less of it, because things outside of her control do not define her. Her healthy, and rare, perspective on success enables her to know that her value as a person is not at risk on the diamond today. She knows who she is, including what values she stands for, and knows that this will not change today, regardless of what happens. Her self-esteem gives her confidence and a sense that she deserves happiness. This self-esteem is affected by her environment some, but mostly it comes from her habits. She has developed the practices of living consciously, self-acceptance, self-responsibility, self-assertiveness, living purposefully, and personal integrity (from The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Brandon).

Mental toughness is the ability to do what needs to be done, now. In practice, it takes courage and drive to work beyond your comfort zone, ignore how you feel, and WIN (Do What’s Important Now). Many athletes go through much of practice on cruise control, figuring that as long as they are doing what they were told, they are in good shape. The reality is that champions find ways to practice with an intensity that reflects how competitive they are. Competitiveness is not revealed late in a close game; it is revealed in practice. Leaders practice at game speed often, try to make the drills harder than the games, and push through pain. They also have the balance to know when to slow down, whether that means to practice in parts, slow-motion, or rest. They do all this while constantly asking “How?” They have a need to know why they are good. They want to know how to make the subtle adjustments necessary for consistency. They know that the most important coach anyone will ever have is herself.

In games, mental toughness precludes worry. How can a competitive athlete not worry about outcomes? By knowing that her best effort is always good enough. Not only is this possible, it also makes sense. A best effort performance maximizes the chance of winning on the scoreboard and all of the other things that people with a normal definition of success worry about (e.g. What will other people think? What will happen to me?)

The pursuit of consistent best effort practices and performances leads to an understanding of what it takes, beyond trying hard, to bridge the gap between potential and performance. It takes commitment to an educated plan of attack and it takes focus. Those are topics for another article. It also takes an ideal internal state. This is, in my opinion, the most over-looked aspect of sports training and performance. Does she get her mind and body in position to excel? Attitude is a choice, but does she know how to choose? If so, does she have the discipline to control the direction of her mind in a harsh and unfair world, or even just in a game innate with “failure?” Does she also understand the impact of non-verbal communication (to self, primarily, but also to others). State can be changed in an instant by changing self-talk and body language.

Here is an example of an ideal state that did not happen purposefully, which is fine and lucky, though obviously not reliable. A hitter came up in a 0-0 game with the bases loaded and popped out. Unbeknownst to him (I witnessed this at a baseball game last week), a balk was called, causing the pitch not to count. Given new life, the batter hit a home run on an outside pitch, then doubled on an inside pitch in his next at-bat, also with the bases loaded. We can all sense the relief he felt when he found out his pop-up did not count. With the grateful attitude that comes from the self-talk, “awesome – I get to bat now,” he was able to relax and focus. Attitude affects physiology and vice versa. Both affect the ability to focus. If this batter is aware, he will purposefully use this line of thought (“awesome – I get to bat now”) in the future. More likely, he will be dependent on circumstance to get his attitude where it needs to be to give his best effort.

Understanding the impact of state and the strategies for controlling it is exciting, but it still takes an awareness of where you are, where you want to be, and how to get there as best as is possible at this point in time to fully tap into your potential. This knowledge comes from using experiences wisely by noticing what worked and what did not work in the past. How? By guessing. Design logical checklists of steps designed to get yourself into the right place at the right time. These checklists are called your routines. Next, pay attention to your outcomes and adjust or repeat your guesses accordingly. Through this simple, alert, and diligent process, you will become an “intelligent athlete.” Intelligence is simply being good at guessing and you get good at guessing just like you get good at anything else: quantity and quality of practice.


Champions Look At It This Way

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An unhealthy perspective in sports says “win at all costs; the score is the only concern.” If you do not win, does this make you a loser? Absolutely not, but socialization into 21st Century America teaches many athletes to feel this way. Our culture consistently promotes the false premise that winning is all that matters. The idea that your self-worth depends on your achievement is a distorted belief. Your value as a person does not fluctuate at all based on your daily sport performances. It is immeasurably immense, a birthright that can never be diminished.

Perspective is the “ability to see things in a true relationship” to one another. It can also mean, “a specific point of view in understanding things or events.” Is your way of looking at events honest? Is it the most useful way to look at the truth? Athletes find all sorts of ways to keep themselves from performing at their best and all of them are related in one way or another to a flawed perspective. To improve faster, lead effectively, and perform well through adversity and pressure, athletes need to look at life in a way that is both true and useful. True, because you will not be able to lie to yourself; useful, because there are two sides to every coin. While both sides of the coin are true, only one way of explaining life is the most useful for creating confidence and an ideal internal state.

The first step to a healthy perspective about sports is to recognize that it is just a game. Sports pose no life-or-death propositions. Parents will not stop loving because of what happens today. Athletes in “big” moments on television may have literally millions of eyes on them, and they are sometimes “tough” enough to perform as though they have not a care in the world. Attend a little league game and you are likely to see a few nine-year-olds carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders. The source of these polar opposites is not the situation, but the way the athlete perceives the situation. A healthy perspective will empower you with the freedom to be totally engrossed in the moment.

An ideal perspective recognizes that how things go in competition today is important, but it is not nearly as important as knowing who I am. Performance outcomes provide feedback. They reveal the truth about what works and what does not work. However, no single outcome should ever be given too much importance. No loss should ever be seen as a catastrophe. No “failure” should be allowed to carry an emotional scar of inadequacy. Fear of failure, which everyone has to some degree, should not interfere with performance because when you have a healthy perspective on the game, you know that by putting forth great effort, you cannot fail. In fact, you are already successful if you design, practice, and execute your plans (routines) to the best of your ability.

Winning is far better than the alternative, but the “winning is everything” perspective is a problem because it does not encourage effort if the victory can be obtained easily. It also does not encourage effort if maximum effort is not perceived to be likely to lead to winning. Not giving your best effort is not only easier, it is also typically perceived to be safer. Most athletes need and keep this safety net for their psyche. They do not go all out because they do not know what would happen and they fear that their best is not good enough. Leaders do not know what will happen either, but because of their perspective on success, they do not fear the unknown. They do not need a safety net. They share John Wooden’s definition of success: “the peace of mind that comes from knowing you did your best.” They know that their best effort is always good enough. Golfer Greg Norman said it well when he reported after a tough loss, “I am a winner. I just didn’t win today.”

An attitude of gratitude is a key perspective for success in sports, as in life. Being thankful improves the heart's rhythmic functioning, which reduces stress, promotes clarity of thought, and aids the healing process. It is physiologically impossible to feel stressful and grateful at the same time. Grateful athletes are more relaxed, more coachable, more forgiving, more present to the task at hand, and generally more positive than their counterparts. They are less likely to complain. Author Jon Gordon says, “Remember that complaining is like vomiting. Afterwards you feel better but everyone around you feels sick.” Leaders live out the words of John Wooden, “Don’t whine. Don’t complain. Don’t make excuses.” Leaders are consistently grateful.

It is not difficult to maintain an attitude of gratitude, even through adversity on the diamond, because you and I won the lottery when we were born. That’s right, based on nothing but luck, we beat the odds at greater than 10,000,000:1 and we are rich as a result. And healthy and free, too. Think about it. If we could have been born at any time in any place in history, it is likely that we would have either not survived infancy, died in a war, been a slave, or perhaps struggled in poverty through a relatively long life into our thirties or forties. It’s more common, of course, to compare our lives to our neighbors’ lives. The grass typically appears greener on the other side, but comparison is a choice. Choosing to count our blessings every day is wise.

When you are off track from where you want to be during a contest (perhaps you are angry with yourself or someone else for making a mistake), the first step to getting back on track is awareness. Then, it is your responsibility to gather yourself to get back on track. A pre-planned gathering routine to make this happen is a great idea. One step of this plan that may be very powerful for you is a power phrase or image that fills you with gratitude or reminds you that softball is just a game that provides you with challenges. Perhaps you think, “This is a great opportunity to not only play softball, but also work on my toughness and consistency.” Perhaps you imagine a grandparent watching over you. It is your job to find the tools that work for you.

Every athlete experiences many challenges and setbacks along the journey to find out how good he can be. With a healthy perspective, you will remember to think like a scientist racing to perform your best and view each obstacle as a stepping-stone to success. You will compete, with yourself first and foremost, freely. Challenges and pitfalls provide motivation for you to get better, faster; they should not be viewed negatively. You are finding out which things work so you can repeat them and which things could be done better so you can change those. Outcomes are no longer bad or good, they are both bad and good. They give you a chance to learn, and also to demonstrate your ability to avoid the negative snowball effect. Clearly, if you and your teammates use mistakes rather than letting them use you, this will give your team an edge over your competition. Yes, mistakes are good. Because of your healthy perspective, you improve at asking and answering the ultimate questions of life: Where am I? Where do I want to go? And, how do I get there?

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In my workshops, I teach John Wooden’s definition of success: the peace of mind that comes from knowing you did your best. Doing your best one pitch at a time defines “winning” the mental side of the game. However “best effort” and “trying hard” are not synonyms. To deliver a best effort performance, trying hard is a pre-requisite, but it is certainly possible to try hard and perform lousy… to try hard and still have regrets about the controllable aspects of performance. Peace of mind equals no regrets.

In the same workshops, I like to do an “experiment” where the student-athletes stretch to the left “as far as you can, and mark it by pointing to a small and specific spot on the wall.” Then I ask them if they know how far they can stretch to the left. It is tempting to say yes, because they just marked how far they could go. Then, after imagining getting farther two times, we physically do the same stretch and well over 90% of participants get farther. Even those who do not acknowledge that by stretching just a few minutes every day for a week, they would likely get farther. The point? It is tempting to know how far you can go based on past experiences, but it is a big mistake to put a limiting belief on potential.

If success is knowing you did your best, but it is always possible to do better, does this mean that success is impossible? NO NO NO! It is not about performing the best you could ever perform. Performance will go up and down, and on average it will go up with experience (as long as you pay attention to the experiences you have). It is about doing the best you can at that point in your life. Success is all about best effort now!

To know that you will be successful even before the game begins – and this is certainly possible – you must not only define success in this way, you must also know how to give a best effort performance… and do each part of this to the best of your ability. Fortunately, there are easily defined components. First, create an ideal state. Said another way: get your mind and body ready to go… to the best of your ability at this point in your life. Next, commit to a plan of attack. You have to know your job to do your job and you have to want to do what you are about to do… to the best of your ability at this point in your life. Finally, focus. Do not over-analyze. Let it happen. Trust it. However you say it, when the action occurs, the athlete must do the best she can at that point in her life to perform in that moment with freedom.

To guarantee that an athlete is doing these three steps to the best of her ability, she must accept that she is the most important coach she will ever have and take the initiative to carefully design her routines. Each routine (pre-game, inning, at-bat, and/or pitch, plus a gathering routine after a pitch if she is off track) must include every best guess she has about how to create an ideal state, commit to a specific and controllable plan of attack, and focus. Being intelligent is simply being good at guessing. Guessing often and adjusting the guess based on her patterns of results leads to that goal.

There are three categories of strategies for routines: things to physically do, power phrases for key reminders at just the right times, and images that tap into the vast resources of the subconscious and conscious brain. For example, a pitcher might:

1. image her P.P.P.P. (personal past peak performance),

2. sweep the rubber clean,

3. get the sign,

4. think “she’s in trouble,”

5. breathe deeply,

6. image the ball hitting the target perfectly,

7. and deliver the pitch with her focus solely on the target.

A hitter’s (not a hacker’s) routine might be to:

1. image her P.P.P.P.,

2. think “this is a great opportunity to… (completing the sentence appropriately to the situation)” while digging into the batter’s box,

3. look for the sign from the third base coach,

4. think about what she wants to swing at and what she wants to take – and how she wants to hit the pitches she is programming a swing for,

5. take a focal breath where she stares at a small spot on the bat and breathes deeply, paying attention the calmness of the exhale,

6. step into the sacred space (batter’s box) with both feet,

7. image hitting a missile into the right-center field gap as she takes rhythm-keeping easy swings that reinforce the good mechanics of staying inside the ball,

8. think “see it and be easy” as her eyes go to the pitcher’s hip,

9. let her mind go quiet as she hunts the ball.

Routines are simply checklists of the athlete’s best guess about how to give her best effort. They should be adjusted, but only based on rational thoughts, not emotions.

Therefore, it is appropriate to stay with a routine during a game and adjust it afterwards based on what is working and what is not. It may have many steps or just a few, but if the athlete is trying to give her best effort without a clear plan of how to do it, she is likely to have regrets when the outcomes do not turn out her way. (It is a good idea to record your routine in your smartphone and write down the “why” for each step, too.)

All this may seem like bad news because success is rather difficult to achieve – it requires uncommon diligence and honesty. However, it is good that it is hard because most people are not willing to do what is difficult, and for your team to win on the diamond, the other team has to lose. Your courage is your edge over your competition! If you have the courage to believe that your best is always good enough and get rid of the “safety net” by doing everything you know to do your best, now, you will not only be a winner, you will usually win on the scoreboard, too. For Baseball & Softball Training Balls & Training Aids!

Begin With The End In Mind (Imagery)

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Imagery is using the mind to create or recreate an experience using as many senses as possible. The human brain does not differentiate between a real experience and a vividly imagined one. Therefore, experience can make an athlete better and imagery can, too… in exactly the same way. The great thing about imagery is that it is free, always available, and (with practice) completely controllable.

One consistent characteristic of leaders in athletics is that they are consumed with excellence. They think about winning and how to win more than average performers. Usually a lot more. They may even go overboard in the sport/lifestyle balance issue because they are so consumed with their sport. They imagine greatness in their sport so often that they arrive at both practices and performances with clear goals. Plus, they have already seen themselves achieving these goals in their heads. They begin with their end in mind.

Imagery can be used in many specific ways. It can be used to learn a new skill, to rehearse a skill or pre-performance routine, or to create an ideal state. Before a big game, an athlete may imagine her personal past peak performance (P.P.P.P.) to increase her confidence or a day at the beach to help her relax and slow the game down. Imagery can be used during a game to program the body and mind, like when a pitcher images the precise trajectory of her pitch. It can be used after the contest to help make appropriate adjustments. Imagining what happened helps athletes recall what went right and what went wrong. Then, imagining what they would like to happen the next time that situation occurs links their positive response to a good next approach. Both scientific research and experiential evidence indicate that using imagery enhances performance. As with any skill, improvement at imagery comes from quality practice.

Most thinking is done with words. Imagery is not done with words; it is practiced by imagining a scenario with any or all of the senses. Since a majority of information is taken in through the eyes, much of the power of imagery comes via visualization. Adding other senses strengthens imagery’s impact. One at a time, an athlete can add in how it smells, feels, tastes, and/or sounds. Typically, emphasis for an athlete is on how it feels and looks.

Everyone can benefit from imagery and everyone daydreams, which is a basic form of imagery. Quality practice is the key to maximizing the benefit of this free, universally available training tool. A primary goal of imagery is to feel the experience happening, rather than merely thinking about it. With practice, component skills such as number of senses used, vividness, controllability, and self-awareness will improve. So, too, will the ability to stay with the imagined experience longer.

Images should be positive. Recalling peak performances and personal triumphs does wonders for an athlete’s confidence. Imaging future good behavior programs the body and mind, increasing the chance of executing that skill. Imaging negative experiences can have the expected effect of degrading a performance, although this does not mean that athletes should only image perfect performances. A huge part of being an effective athlete is being able to effectively deal with adversity. Therefore, leaders also image their desired behaviors following a mistake or bad luck.

It can be beneficial for an athlete to image significant past personal experiences. Both positive and negative experiences can help bring strong emotions and intense energy from the past to the present. She may have to spend some time searching her personal database of memories to dig up the experiences that will help her the most. She should look for the events that motivate and generate energy. If she chooses to recall a negative experience, she should remind herself of how she overcame or was able to move beyond this adversity. She will gain energy and determination from the negative image while still leaving the practice on a positive note.

Most professional and Olympic athletes use imagery systematically to enhance their performance. Learning imagery can initially be intimidating, but it should not be. It simply takes quality practice and experimentation! Of course, a beginner is not particularly skilled at imagery, but this is good news because there is plenty of room to learn and receive imagery’s benefits! It is a good idea to designate a specific spot exclusively for practicing imagery and other mental skills. It does not have to be fancy, just secluded. For example, facing the opposite direction in bed might be a place that works. This designated mental practice spot should be normally available, private, quiet, and comfortable.

Consistent practice will pay off. First, practice simple scenes in real time. Control an image much like operating a remote control, trying not to use the fast forward button too much. Images can be in the first person, meaning that the athlete sees the scene as she will see it in real life, or in third person, meaning that it appears as if it is on a movie screen. When using third-person imagery, the perspective can be from in front, behind, Imagery can be incorporated into an athlete’s routine plan for each play. Immediately before each play, a quick image or two of what should or could happen next allows the body to be truly prepared to act or react aggressively, under control. This commits the body to a specific plan, allowing instincts to take over during the action. For example, an outfielder may see herself making a great catch to rob a home run. Next, she could imagine herself cutting off a single in the gap and making a great throw to second base. Then, she might include one of two reactions to a looping liner in front of her that she may be able to catch. If she is in a “no doubles” defense, she would imagine slowing down to keep the ball in front of her. If an out is more valued than keeping the batter to a single, she would see herself making a great diving catch.

Imagery helps the mind and body cooperate with each other. Without it, an athlete may hear instructions to do something and even tell herself to do it. Then, she may do the exact opposite of what she just agreed to do. For example, the first base coach may say “freeze on a line drive.” The runner may nod in agreement, and then make the mistake of running a couple steps toward the next base when that line drive is hit. It is not that the runner is purposefully ignoring the instruction, but rather that she never fully committed her mind to that plan. Imagery ensures this commitment and adds a bonus of a mental rehearsal of the play, too.

Incorporating imagery into a routine of preparation and/or reflection is an excellent way to practice it. Typically, imaging appropriate attitudes, postures, and behaviors before performing helps enable that “green light” “Go, go, go!” feeling. Various external images can be tried. The image of a glass lake helps many to quiet their conscious mind. The image of Supergirl, Rocky, or their favorite player helps many to feel powerful. The brief image of a strong, shiny, silver spring all coiled up and waiting to pounce can be a powerful image for athletes like hitters who use quick, explosive movements. The calmness and beauty of the image just before a perfectly synchronized explosion of resources helps the athlete to stay patient, then explode. Often, players image an entire performance before it happens so that they will feel like they have been there before when it actually happens. This is a bit like taking a Mulligan in golf… without cheating.

After performing, imagery can promote effective adjustments. Pausing during an inning to mull over what just happened, especially if it was a mistake, is usually not a good idea. During the game, athletes want to stay in the present by releasing mistakes and trusting their ability. Later, imaging what happened can aid their powers of recall, helping them to not miss the opportunity to learn and grow. A leader picks out which behaviors to repeat and which to change, and then images herself executing the corrections.

An athlete's performance, in imagery as in sport, is her responsibility. To approach her potential, she will have to figure out how to maximize imagery's benefits. No single formula works for everyone. With motivation and the courage to try new strategies, she will develop her skill and awareness, practicing what works and enjoying the effects of tapping into the power of her mind.

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“Excellence is not a singular act, but a habit. You are what you repeatedly do.” ~Aristotle

To work smarter and improve faster, discipline is required. Discipline is commonly cited as a necessity for success in sports (or life). But what is discipline? How does an athlete know if she has a disciplined approach? Is it the sweat? The fatigue? The outcomes? Many young people (in age or maturity) lack a full and clear understanding of what it means to be disciplined. Laziness certainly shows a lack of discipline. Every great leader knows that she must go through the middle to get to the end. Quality practice is a necessity; it is the huge “middle.” She cannot expect to coast through drills in practice and be able to “turn it on” in the game (or worse: late in the game if the score is close).

A leader works to make the performance in practice feel the same as it does in a playoff championship game. She goes game speed, or she does not go at all. Ideally, she cares equally about all of her results, regardless of the situation, because results always provide feedback about how well she is currently doing at approaching her potential (the “end” that she is striving for). She wants to be the best she can be and she knows that the only time she has any control over for reaching that lofty goal is right now. She has the discipline to move beyond her comfort zone, beyond her familiar zone. It is her habit of doing her best, now — regardless of how hard that is — that makes her successful.

Disciplined athletes make excellence second nature because they are willing to endure fatigue and pain now to enhance their pleasure later. Typically, this is pleasure that will result from performing better, maximizing her chances to win.

Simply put, disciplined athletes are competitive. They run through the line instead of coasting to it. They go to bed at a decent hour rather than go out to a party. They lift weights rather than hang out in the weight room. They eat fruits and vegetables rather than fast food and ice cream. Their attitude is one of appreciation rather than one of entitlement. In many different ways, they push towards their goals rather than coasting along. Disciplined athletes figure out what their job is and do it the best they can.

Can a person work hard and still be undisciplined? Yes, and this is not uncommon. An athlete is mentally lazy if she does not constantly evaluate information, looking for the best way. Some athletes do not like to focus on the details. It is too much trouble, and after all, everyone can see that they are already working hard-just look at the sweat. Unfortunately, if they are working hard, but not smart, the return on their work will be less than a tenth of what it could be.

Quality practice produces improvement more than ten times faster than merely going through the motions. Slow progress occurs when the athlete does not work at the edge of her ability level, or she is not focused, or she works only on her strengths, not her weaknesses. Disciplined athletes understand the point of their practice, they focus their attention appropriately, and they wisely choose how to spend their time. Often, they spend most of their time working on their weaknesses and finish with their strengths (to maximize confidence and fun memories after practice). In the weight room, an athlete should train her proportionally weaker muscles more than her proportionally stronger muscles. Also, she should train for functional strength in her sport, not to look good on the beach. She takes the time to design drills that are as difficult or more difficult than the game situations that they simulate.

Normal athletes' evaluations of what they are good at and what needs the most improvements are often biased by their expectations and prejudices. Most would rather protect their ego than identify a better way. When something goes wrong, they do not sufficiently search for the cause of the problem. When it is time to try something new, they hesitate or skip it because they fear the unknown. They do not know how to stretch their own boundaries. They have not learned to be comfortable being uncomfortable. As a result, they make poor adjustments and their rate of learning suffers, as does their performance in “uncomfortable” situations. Skillful adjustments and continuous learning are primary ingredients for any athlete/scientist to approach her potential.

The quality of an athlete's approach can be disciplined and unselfish or undisciplined and dictated by emotions and the selfish ego. A hitter should often go for a single to the opposite field rather than trying to pull a home run. The pitcher should execute a game plan rather than engage in a personal battle with the opposing 3-hole hitter. A lack of self-control causes athletes to act emotionally instead of rationally, which is often manifested in increased tension and/or aggressiveness. Examples of a lack of self-control include obvious mistakes such swinging at pitches that are not close to strikes or less obvious mistakes such as bad rhythm (usually rushing, but sometimes being too slow and careful) or loss of flexibility. Infinite examples exist. Discipline requires emotional control, thereby allowing the athlete to use her best judgment about how to maximize her chances of getting the outcomes she wants.

In the book The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth, Dr. M. Scott Peck clarified what it takes to have great discipline. His premise is that life is difficult, but with discipline, a person can transcend this difficulty. He breaks down discipline into four necessary components: delaying gratification, accepting responsibility, dedicating oneself to reality, and balancing. Delaying gratification means scheduling pain in the present to enhance pleasure in the future. Accepting responsibility involves recognizing that a problem any person is having is her problem and it is her job to solve this problem. Do not wait for someone else or “society” to fix it. Part of accepting responsibility involves a dedication to reality, which assumes a commitment to discovering truth or what is real and what is not. Stringent self-examination, willingness to be challenged, and relentless honesty are necessary components of a total dedication to reality. Shortcuts are sought for efficiency, but inappropriate shortcutting such as cheating is unacceptable. Finally, balancing, or choosing one course of action over another, requires flexibility, good judgment, and courage. It also acknowledges the pain of giving something up. In conclusion, Dr. Peck's work teaches that the disciplined individual is a spiritually evolved person who has the capability to transcend the difficulty of life.

All this information may seem like a lot for an athlete to handle. Do the details of good discipline make the attempt at it overwhelming? No. Would an effort to be disciplined be futile? Never. Clarification makes the process manageable, and the effort alone defines the success. All that is required is courage and motivation. Of course this is easier to understand than to do, but if courage and motivation exist, a leader will constantly fight to improve her skills. She will fall down often, but will get up each time. She will strive for perfection, but she will be smarter than to ever allow herself to expect it. She will keep the mountaintop in mind, sometimes at the forefront and often in the background, but she will enjoy the journey even more than the destination. By doing these things through motivated and courageous behavior, she will truly be disciplined in her attempt to approach her potential. Success is inevitable.

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Trying Hard And Best Effort Are Not The Same

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“Nobody who ever gave their best effort regretted it.”
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You can be mentally tough. All you have to do is figure out how to give your best effort on one pitch, in any situation. In fact, a great definition of “winning” the mental side of the game is to give your best effort one play at a time, accept whatever happens, and do it again. Your best effort in a game, inning, at-bat, or singular pitch may not be as good as your performance yesterday, but it is much better than a performance in which you try hard and stink. To perform the best you are capable of performing at this moment in time means that you will have no regrets later when you think back to how you approached that performance.

There is a big difference between “trying hard” and giving your “best effort”. To give your best effort, you have to try hard. There is no substitute for sweat. However, softball players often try too hard. They press, they get tight, they get distracted, they space out, they do things that make them wish for a do-over. There are no do-overs (even in practice)!

So what do “clutch” performers do that others do not? What do you do when you are playing great that you fail to do when you are trying hard but struggling? Obviously, there are many factors, but they can all be summed up in three steps. First, you have to get your mind and body ready to go. I call that “creating an ideal performance state”. Next, you must commit to a specific and controllable plan-of-attack. Finally, focus with tunnel vision on the task-at-hand!

An ideal state is usually not easily achieved. Occasionally – very occasionally for most – life flow (current environment and recent experiences) takes you to where you want to be. Perhaps it is the first game of the season, a rivalry game, or a game where the pitcher makes a couple mistakes down the middle of the plate against you in your first two at-bats. At those times, awareness of your ideal state or how to get yourself there is unnecessary, because you are already there. The rest of the time, awareness and the ability to create an ideal state has tremendous value.

Tony Robbins teaches that, “you can change your state in an instant”. This is true, but it is an advanced skill that must be practiced. The way to get the mind ready to go is to use effective self-talk based on an Optimistic Explanatory Style. Your thoughts determine your attitude, so it is easy for a mental skills coach to say, “think good thoughts” Doing this is difficult, but that does not excuse not trying. Every day provides thousands of chances to practice finding the positives in each situation and focusing on the opportunities rather than the feared outcomes. In addition to controlling the direction of the mind, body language is a critical component for creating an ideal state. Your mind affects your body and vice versa. If you want to be confident, act confident. Acting includes both thinking and looking like someone who exudes confidence.

It is unlikely that you will do your job well without clarity as to what you are trying to do. When there is doubt in your mind, how are your muscles supposed to know what to do? To commit, you have to want to do this job, not just be willing. And the goal should be within your control! Pitchers: do not try to get strikes and outs. Instead, try to give your team the best chance possible to get strikes and outs. The way to do this is to give your best effort to hit your spots aggressively. Strategy: image the if/thens for the next pitch. Then, all you have to do is see the ball and react based on what you have already planned to do. Imagery is typically more effective than verbal instructions within an athlete's self-talk.

The first two steps, creating an ideal state and committing to a plan of attack, are both steps of self-coaching. Mentally tough athletes are consistent in part because they play the game smart and know how to get themselves ready to perform. However, this strategic self-talk has to stop, or a best effort performance will not ensue. Thinking too much is debilitating for a hitter, baserunner, pitcher, or fielder. First, the athlete must know what the correct focus for the task-at-hand is. She must learn the game. Then, she must block out distractions from the present, future, and past. This can be summed with the memory aid “W.I.N.” (What's Important Now).

Blocking out distractions from the present such as parents, coaches, and teammates hollering, or items within the field of vision takes practice, but is easier for most people than “flushing” the past or not worrying about the future. There is no secret for blocking out worries, but the strategy to achieve it is to understand that worrying will not help, and the way to “W.I.N.” do What's Important Now. The same principle applies to “flushing” the past: “forget about it; what's next”. This mantra, or some version of it, should be practiced because it is a powerful skill that will improve with practice. However, if the “poopy” bad thoughts are stuck in consciousness, a “plunger” is needed. The “plunger” is forgiveness. Forgiveness will give you freedom from what is making you frustrated, angry, impatient, or distracted, but only if you do it. Therefore, keep in mind that all humans are flawed: everyone makes mistakes. Then, maintain your high standards by remembering the words of Coach John Wooden: “Strive for perfection, but never expect it.”

Giving a best effort performance is within your control, but it is not easy. You have to have no regrets about your strategies for creating an ideal state, committing to a great plan-of-attack, and focusing on the task-at-hand. This will only happen if you have a pre-planned checklist of things you do that give you the best chance to achieve these goals. This checklist is called your routine. Honestly, you need three: a pre-game routine, a pre-situational-specific routine, and a gathering routine. Sample routines and strategies for building your individual checklist is the topic for a future article and much individual pursuit of excellence, but keep in mind that if you are diligent and accountable for your actions, you have the power to be successful every time. You can guarantee that you will not only try hard, but also give your best effort one pitch at a time!

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